About me

When We meet, you will be drawn to Me like a moth to a flame. It’s not simply My statuesque figure. I emanate a heat that people want to bathe in. You will have to work hard to be blessed with My warmth. But isn’t it worth it? To be favored with My attention is to feel like there is a ray of light on only you, as if you are the center of the universe. 

 I am an alchemist of pain. I have explored My personal relationship to pain tirelessly over the past fifteen years, and with the experience I have procured, I will lift your leaden spirit to golden heights. Immense growth is possible as the result of consensual suffering, and I take My role in your transformation very seriously. It is an honor for Me, and a priceless gift to you. Your cherished secrets are exactly what I wish to tease out of you, and My wish is your command. Let Me shatter your understanding of what it means to be in control. Don’t be too scared, for you are in very capable hands. This sacred transmutation is, after all, why I am called Domina Nicki Golden. 


Although I take My role quite seriously, finding joy in our shared moments is of equal importance. I approach play with a sense of levity that is charming, but will keep you on your toes. You’re never quite sure if I am laughing at you, or if you're laughing with Me. Are you the butt of the joke? Are you the punchline? Or are you an honored annotation in this story that is all Mine? Wouldn’t that be a delicious reward?


I value getting to know My submissive’s limits and specific interests, thus negotiation is vital to Me, and will always be the first thing we do together. I enjoy playing with all genders and ethnicities, experienced players and novices alike. If you have access needs please let Me know! I absolutely ADORE double sessions with other select Mistresses. Please see My DOUBLE TROUBLE page to view My favorite Mistresses to play with...find out what torments Our combined deviously gifted minds can bestow upon you!

I can't wait to play with you!


Legal Notice: With reference to California Penal Code section 647(b) and CALCRIM Nos. 1153 to 1155, the services discussed herein do not in any way include or relate to either (1) engagement in any lewd act for money or other consideration, or (2) solicitation, offer, or agreement to engage in any lewd act for money or other consideration. 

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